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		<title>Comment on Permanent weight loss requires permanent diligence. by OKC</title>
		<link>http://namastelove.wordpress.com/2009/07/29/permanent-weight-loss-requires-permanent-diligence/#comment-113</link>
		<dc:creator>OKC</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Aug 2009 10:15:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yup - I agree wholeheartedly! I&#039;m nearing 53, and in the best shape of my life.  I personally choose to eat pretty much the same basic stuff every day, just because I don&#039;t need to resort to planning meals every day.  I DO vary my evening meal, however - just to keep things interesting.  AND, I have a cheat night every Sat.  It keeps me from &quot;misbehaving&quot; during the week.  Just a little cheating - NOT a binge by any means.

Hope you&#039;ll stick with it.  You&#039;ll take a lot of flack from friends and family about not being &quot;normal.&quot;  Who the heck wants to be &quot;normal,&quot; anyhoo? :D  The longer that you do it, the more &quot;second-nature&quot; it will become to you.

Oh - and nearly all of the 50-plusers that I know and see look like they&#039;re a stone&#039;s-throw from the retirement center.  Kinda sad.  I believe that you&#039;re correct in your assumption that people go down that road due to their perceptions of what a 50 y/o should be.  I honestly don&#039;t care so much if my lifestyle choices make me live longer.  I just know that my quality of life is and will continue to be so much better while I am here.  Plus - when I finally DO kick the bucket, I&#039;m gonna look GOOD in that box! :D

Have a great weekend!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yup &#8211; I agree wholeheartedly! I&#8217;m nearing 53, and in the best shape of my life.  I personally choose to eat pretty much the same basic stuff every day, just because I don&#8217;t need to resort to planning meals every day.  I DO vary my evening meal, however &#8211; just to keep things interesting.  AND, I have a cheat night every Sat.  It keeps me from &#8220;misbehaving&#8221; during the week.  Just a little cheating &#8211; NOT a binge by any means.</p>
<p>Hope you&#8217;ll stick with it.  You&#8217;ll take a lot of flack from friends and family about not being &#8220;normal.&#8221;  Who the heck wants to be &#8220;normal,&#8221; anyhoo? <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' />   The longer that you do it, the more &#8220;second-nature&#8221; it will become to you.</p>
<p>Oh &#8211; and nearly all of the 50-plusers that I know and see look like they&#8217;re a stone&#8217;s-throw from the retirement center.  Kinda sad.  I believe that you&#8217;re correct in your assumption that people go down that road due to their perceptions of what a 50 y/o should be.  I honestly don&#8217;t care so much if my lifestyle choices make me live longer.  I just know that my quality of life is and will continue to be so much better while I am here.  Plus &#8211; when I finally DO kick the bucket, I&#8217;m gonna look GOOD in that box! <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Have a great weekend!</p>
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		<title>Comment on The misconception that women &#8220;aren&#8217;t visually oriented&#8221; when it comes to attraction. by OKC</title>
		<link>http://namastelove.wordpress.com/2009/08/13/the-misconception-that-women-arent-visually-oriented-when-it-comes-to-attraction/#comment-112</link>
		<dc:creator>OKC</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Aug 2009 09:59:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sounds like you&#039;ve had a little experience with THAT type of guy.

Funny, but many of the sit-coms on the tube pair a beer-bellied husband with a slender, attractive wife.  Always looks a bit odd to me.

Anyway - I thought that you might find this interesting.

&quot;It&#039;s Hip to be Round&quot;

http://www.nytimes.com/2009/08/13/fashion/13POTBELLY.html?_r=1&amp;bl&amp;ex=1250395200&amp;en=38d1a254b7493a3c&amp;ei=5087%0A

Happily, I&#039;m neither a &quot;hipster&quot; nor a &quot;slave to fashion.&quot;  :D  I&#039;ll stick with my abs and low body fat %.  It only takes an hour or so out of my day - along with making proper dietary choices.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sounds like you&#8217;ve had a little experience with THAT type of guy.</p>
<p>Funny, but many of the sit-coms on the tube pair a beer-bellied husband with a slender, attractive wife.  Always looks a bit odd to me.</p>
<p>Anyway &#8211; I thought that you might find this interesting.</p>
<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s Hip to be Round&#8221;</p>
<p><a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2009/08/13/fashion/13POTBELLY.html?_r=1&amp;bl&amp;ex=1250395200&amp;en=38d1a254b7493a3c&amp;ei=5087" rel="nofollow">http://www.nytimes.com/2009/08/13/fashion/13POTBELLY.html?_r=1&amp;bl&amp;ex=1250395200&amp;en=38d1a254b7493a3c&amp;ei=5087</a></p>
<p>Happily, I&#8217;m neither a &#8220;hipster&#8221; nor a &#8220;slave to fashion.&#8221;  <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' />   I&#8217;ll stick with my abs and low body fat %.  It only takes an hour or so out of my day &#8211; along with making proper dietary choices.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Being Fat Isn&#8217;t Pretty by namastelove</title>
		<link>http://namastelove.wordpress.com/2009/06/14/being-fat-isnt-pretty/#comment-110</link>
		<dc:creator>namastelove</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Jul 2009 16:37:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good for you on that - it&#039;s far more encouraging for someone trying to lose weight (for the right reasons) a &quot;good for you!&quot; or an &quot;I&#039;m happy for you!&quot; rather than an, &quot;oh you&#039;re fine the way you are.&quot;  

I do hate how a lot of people take &quot;you look great&quot; to mean, &quot;you looked like crap before.&quot;  It&#039;s just a compliment, but so many people find some way to misconstrue the intent.  I assure you I&#039;m not one of those people - I LOVE being told I look great :) heh.

Glad to have shed some light from the perspective of someone who is overweight. :)  Keep encouraging your friends - they will appreciate it I assure you!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good for you on that &#8211; it&#8217;s far more encouraging for someone trying to lose weight (for the right reasons) a &#8220;good for you!&#8221; or an &#8220;I&#8217;m happy for you!&#8221; rather than an, &#8220;oh you&#8217;re fine the way you are.&#8221;  </p>
<p>I do hate how a lot of people take &#8220;you look great&#8221; to mean, &#8220;you looked like crap before.&#8221;  It&#8217;s just a compliment, but so many people find some way to misconstrue the intent.  I assure you I&#8217;m not one of those people &#8211; I LOVE being told I look great <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  heh.</p>
<p>Glad to have shed some light from the perspective of someone who is overweight. <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   Keep encouraging your friends &#8211; they will appreciate it I assure you!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Being a little sore won&#8217;t hurt or kill you&#8230; by namastelove</title>
		<link>http://namastelove.wordpress.com/2009/07/18/being-a-little-sore-wont-hurt-or-kill-you/#comment-109</link>
		<dc:creator>namastelove</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Jul 2009 16:34:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>yeah I agree with the recovery time with leg muscles - I seem to always have sore hamstrings these days, and I work on my feet!  eeep!  But still, so totally worth it :)  And yeah, if I don&#039;t feel a workout afterwards, I know I didn&#039;t get anything out of it and it&#039;s a bit disappointing. heh.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>yeah I agree with the recovery time with leg muscles &#8211; I seem to always have sore hamstrings these days, and I work on my feet!  eeep!  But still, so totally worth it <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   And yeah, if I don&#8217;t feel a workout afterwards, I know I didn&#8217;t get anything out of it and it&#8217;s a bit disappointing. heh.</p>
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		<title>Comment on eeep! by Q. R.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Q. R.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Jul 2009 22:34:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That&#039;s a major WTF. It&#039;s sad that eating disorders are associated with healthy weight loss. It doesn&#039;t surprise me though, since you can&#039;t even google &#039;thin women&#039; without coming across a barrage of  that sort of crap.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#8217;s a major WTF. It&#8217;s sad that eating disorders are associated with healthy weight loss. It doesn&#8217;t surprise me though, since you can&#8217;t even google &#8216;thin women&#8217; without coming across a barrage of  that sort of crap.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Being Fat Isn&#8217;t Pretty by Q. R.</title>
		<link>http://namastelove.wordpress.com/2009/06/14/being-fat-isnt-pretty/#comment-106</link>
		<dc:creator>Q. R.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Jul 2009 22:31:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If I could shed some light into the whole friends-being-enablers thing, (&#039;Oh no! You shouldn&#039;t lose the weight!&#039;) I think it just goes along with the fact that if you say anything bad about an overweight person, it causes a lot of trouble. I am one of said naturally thin people, and I am guilty of doing the same thing. It&#039;s gotten to the point where &#039;you look great!&#039; implies that &#039;oh well, you looked so awful before!&#039; Not trying to make excuses, but this was my stupid reason for doing it. Thanks for shedding some light on this for me though, from now on I&#039;m going to encourage my friends instead of trying to tell them they should be happy with themselves when they clearly aren&#039;t.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If I could shed some light into the whole friends-being-enablers thing, (&#8216;Oh no! You shouldn&#8217;t lose the weight!&#8217;) I think it just goes along with the fact that if you say anything bad about an overweight person, it causes a lot of trouble. I am one of said naturally thin people, and I am guilty of doing the same thing. It&#8217;s gotten to the point where &#8216;you look great!&#8217; implies that &#8216;oh well, you looked so awful before!&#8217; Not trying to make excuses, but this was my stupid reason for doing it. Thanks for shedding some light on this for me though, from now on I&#8217;m going to encourage my friends instead of trying to tell them they should be happy with themselves when they clearly aren&#8217;t.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Being a little sore won&#8217;t hurt or kill you&#8230; by OKC</title>
		<link>http://namastelove.wordpress.com/2009/07/18/being-a-little-sore-wont-hurt-or-kill-you/#comment-105</link>
		<dc:creator>OKC</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Jul 2009 22:00:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I almost feel sad when some part of me is not sore.  It&#039;s just a little bit addictive! ;)

On the other hand, the first, second and sometimes third days after &quot;Leg day&quot; are often a bit too much of a &quot;pleasure.&quot;  That&#039;s about the only time I wouldn&#039;t mind having a Hoveround.  Those great big leg muscles take some time to recover from a heavy workout.  OW-UCH!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I almost feel sad when some part of me is not sore.  It&#8217;s just a little bit addictive! <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>On the other hand, the first, second and sometimes third days after &#8220;Leg day&#8221; are often a bit too much of a &#8220;pleasure.&#8221;  That&#8217;s about the only time I wouldn&#8217;t mind having a Hoveround.  Those great big leg muscles take some time to recover from a heavy workout.  OW-UCH!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Being Fat Isn&#8217;t Pretty by namastelove</title>
		<link>http://namastelove.wordpress.com/2009/06/14/being-fat-isnt-pretty/#comment-104</link>
		<dc:creator>namastelove</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Jul 2009 11:19:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>thanks OKC!  I hope your 4th was really nice!  I actually found a recipe online that is credited to be originally from Weight Watchers for a &quot;key lime&quot; pie that&#039;s way less calories than the real deal.  I tried it out for the 4th (me and my family looooooove key lime pie), and everyone loved it, including myself.  It hit the spot like the &quot;real thing&quot; does.  It was still a confection for sure, but not nearly the calorie disaster than real key lime pie is.  

http://kathy.yeehaw.net/recipes/keylime_pie.html

That&#039;s the link to it.  I calculated the calories per slice based on the ingredients and came up with about 236 cals if you cut it up into 8 pieces.  All the calorie data I can find online for the real thing tell me that a slice of real key lime pie is anywhere from 450 to 600 calories per slice!

I actually experimented and found that it helped the flavor a lot to put in a little bit of real lime juice when mixing the gelatin.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>thanks OKC!  I hope your 4th was really nice!  I actually found a recipe online that is credited to be originally from Weight Watchers for a &#8220;key lime&#8221; pie that&#8217;s way less calories than the real deal.  I tried it out for the 4th (me and my family looooooove key lime pie), and everyone loved it, including myself.  It hit the spot like the &#8220;real thing&#8221; does.  It was still a confection for sure, but not nearly the calorie disaster than real key lime pie is.  </p>
<p><a href="http://kathy.yeehaw.net/recipes/keylime_pie.html" rel="nofollow">http://kathy.yeehaw.net/recipes/keylime_pie.html</a></p>
<p>That&#8217;s the link to it.  I calculated the calories per slice based on the ingredients and came up with about 236 cals if you cut it up into 8 pieces.  All the calorie data I can find online for the real thing tell me that a slice of real key lime pie is anywhere from 450 to 600 calories per slice!</p>
<p>I actually experimented and found that it helped the flavor a lot to put in a little bit of real lime juice when mixing the gelatin.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Being Fat Isn&#8217;t Pretty by OKC</title>
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		<dc:creator>OKC</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 17:11:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m with ya on the &quot;sweets&quot; - particularly baked goods.  I used to be one heck of a baker.  Probably because with my background in chemistry &amp; chem engineering, mixing stuff together just seems natural to me.  PLUS, I just love that stuff.  Fortunately I&#039;ve gotten away from that and bake something &quot;good&quot; (read: &quot;BAD&quot;) only very rarely.  I haven&#039;t made one of my killer signature cheesecakes in two years.  :(   About a gazillion calories per small slice...

Have a good 4th!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m with ya on the &#8220;sweets&#8221; &#8211; particularly baked goods.  I used to be one heck of a baker.  Probably because with my background in chemistry &amp; chem engineering, mixing stuff together just seems natural to me.  PLUS, I just love that stuff.  Fortunately I&#8217;ve gotten away from that and bake something &#8220;good&#8221; (read: &#8220;BAD&#8221;) only very rarely.  I haven&#8217;t made one of my killer signature cheesecakes in two years.  <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' />    About a gazillion calories per small slice&#8230;</p>
<p>Have a good 4th!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Being Fat Isn&#8217;t Pretty by namastelove</title>
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		<dc:creator>namastelove</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 15:58:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you so much, OKC!  I think it&#039;s jealousy for those who are still overweight/obese, and lack of understanding for the thin people who have the freaky-fast metabolisms. :)  I find actually that a lot of processed/restaurant foods are too rich for me to eat too much of them or I get a queasy stomach, but sweets are my biggest weakness.  I bet you DO turn a lot of heads - that&#039;s pretty amazing!  And the hard work and disciplined eating is commendable, even when others say nay about it.  And thanks for the compliments on my progress pics :)  I appreciate that!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you so much, OKC!  I think it&#8217;s jealousy for those who are still overweight/obese, and lack of understanding for the thin people who have the freaky-fast metabolisms. <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   I find actually that a lot of processed/restaurant foods are too rich for me to eat too much of them or I get a queasy stomach, but sweets are my biggest weakness.  I bet you DO turn a lot of heads &#8211; that&#8217;s pretty amazing!  And the hard work and disciplined eating is commendable, even when others say nay about it.  And thanks for the compliments on my progress pics <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   I appreciate that!</p>
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